For many people, Christmas isn’t hard because of the season — it’s hard because of the people. The holidays have a way of pulling us back into old roles, old dynamics, and old wounds we may have spent the rest of the year carefully tending. Even when we’ve done years of healing work, family gatherings can quietly press on tender places we didn’t realize were still sore. If you find yourself dreading certain conversations, bracing your body before walking through

The holidays are visually, audibly, and sensorially loud. Twinkling lights, glittering decorations, festive music, crowded stores, the smell of pine and cinnamon—everything seems designed to overwhelm the senses. For many people, these things spark joy—but for some of us, they trigger stress, discomfort, or even anxiety. For me, one sensory detail stands out every year: blue LED Christmas lights. My eyes!  Just seeing them flicker across a neighbour’s house makes my eyes blur

The holidays are supposed to be magical, right? Twinkling lights, cozy music, the smell of pine and cinnamon… the perfect scene from a greeting card. But for some of us, Christmas can feel anything but joyful. If you’ve ever admitted that the holidays are hard, you’ve likely heard phrases like: "Oh, you’ll learn to like Christmas eventually.""Just pretend for everyone else’s sake.""It’s not that bad—try to enjoy it.""You’re overreacting—Christmas is supposed to be fu